Wives And Nudism
Pitching My Wife Nudism
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Getting my wife to go along with my interest in nudism wasn't a slam-dunk. Her first response was, "You're never going to get me to swing." Unfortunately, that's the impression a lot of people have about nudism - it's for people who wear shiny underwear. But the fact is, that segment of people who like to get naked together and have sex aren't nudists at all. They're nymphomaniacs, or something else. (See: Older Women Enjoying The Lifestyle)
Thinking a soft approach the best strategy, I gently persuaded her to join me in the backyard for naked sunbathing. Understand, this woman is a strict Protestant with very conservative views - she was uncomfortable being naked with just me in the backyard. Even when she changes in the bedroom she's very modest about it.
But with a little more gentle nudging, one day she took off her top while we were sunning on the back deck. It happened to be my birthday so I guess she felt I deserved a special treat. I of course loved seeing her "outside" topless, and after a little while she was walking around, fussing with the garden, going to the kitchen for drinks, all topless. At one point we heard neighbors in their backyards (if they wanted to, they could see over the fence), but my wife didn't react. This was strange.
Eventually we progressed to nude sunbathing and she readily adapted. I added a hot tub, and we hot tubbed nude. We had friends over for diner and drinks shortly after and, of course, the hot tub was burbling away, and we decided to get in. This was a big moment - will she?
To my surprise, my wife stripped to her panties and got in with us. This was the first time in my life being naked, with my wife nearly so (and once the panties were wet, well), with non-relatives. It was very exciting, which I proved later that night, while serving up high praise for my wife's courage. It greatly improved our love making.
Not long after I ordered some brochures from nudist resorts, suggested a few for her to look at, and asked what she thought. "Do I have to go nude too?" No, I said, they were swimsuit optional (knowing if she agreed to go she would eventually join in).
In the end we went to Hidden Resorts and had a ball. Within a half day my wife was walking around naked as a jaybird amongst strangers or people she'd just met. We stayed a week and did everything nude - snorkeled, played tennis, sailed and swam.
At one point I asked her what made her change her mind. She said, "It's turned you into an animal, and you treat me like a Goddess." It's true. She may not be the youngest woman on a nude beach, or the most fit (but fit enough), but when we're naked together I only have eyes for her. "Nudist Bares: Roads To Nudism"